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If you struggle with a clear answer, here are a few traits that will help you determine whether you are a Man or “boy?” You may find it helpful to ask others about the Man or “boy?” question. You will be surprised to find how much others agree in determining whether you are a Man or “boy?”

boy

Man
  1. Cowers in confrontation
  2. Blames others for problems
  3. Pouts
  4. Runs from responsibility
  5. Protects himself first
  6. Worms his way into position
  7. Argues
  8. Resents Men
  9. Envious of others success
  10. Mothers other “boys”
  11. Hides true thoughts
  12. Manipulates perceptions
  13. Wimpy in spirit
  14. Follows strong females
  15. Insecure in self-identity
  16. Pornography & sexual problems
  17. Emotionally weak
  18. Panics in crisis
  19. Tolerates evil
  20. Cheats
  21. Disrespected by women/children
  22. Harbors prejudice
  23. Self medicates/indulges himself
  24. Demands he’s right
  25. Defensive & easily offended
  26. Walks in fear
  27. Refuses to grow up
  28. Plays the “poor old guy”
  29. Can’t distinguish Men from “boys”
  30. Puts off dealing with problems
  31. Honors matriarchal leadership
  32. Ignores creditors
  33. Gives up after “trying”
  34. Avoids advice from others
  35. Strives to have things his way
  36. Complains about circumstances
  37. Long-term anger at Mom & Dad
  38. Gives Keys of authority away
  39. Angry if Manhood challenged
  40. Thinks homosexuality is a choice
  41. Contemplates quitting & suicide
  42. Desires females to rescue him
  43. Controls and abuses family
  44. Waits to resolve conflict
  45. Tells lies
  46. Declares war against enemies
  47. Says he’s sorry frequently
  48. Dislikes being told what to do
  49. Refuses to forgive/holds grudges
  50. Loves flattery
  51. Happy to remain a “boy”
  52. Is bothered by list of “boy” traits
  1. Stands up to confrontation
  2. Takes responsibility for problems
  3. Accepts consequences gracefully
  4. Looks for ways to take responsibility
  5. Protects others first
  6. Walks in God given authority
  7. Settles
  8. Encourages Men
  9. Shares/celebrates success of others
  10. Fathers other Men
  11. Honest & forthright in relationships
  12. Seeks Truth
  13. Filled with Spirit
  14. Leads strong women
  15. Secure in self-identity
  16. Stable & healthy in relationships
  17. Emotionally strong
  18. Strong & stable in crisis
  19. Attacks & rebukes evil
  20. Plays by the rules
  21. Respected by women/children
  22. Loves and honors all people
  23. Abstains/self controlled
  24. Admits he is wrong, after seeing it
  25. Relational & takes the hit
  26. Walks in faith – overcomes fear
  27. Has chosen to be a Man
  28. Will not allow anyone to pity him
  29. Knows he’s a Man, and who is a “boy”
  30. Deals with problems when possible
  31. Honors Patriarchal leadership
  32. Deals with creditors
  33. Never gives up
  34. Receives/promotes advice from others
  35. Strives to have things right
  36. Makes the best of situations
  37. Resolves family relational problems
  38. Retains Keys of authority
  39. Stronger when Manhood challenged
  40. Knows homosexuality is dysfunction
  41. Makes plans for victory - never quits
  42. Allows women to help him
  43. Protects & nurtures family
  44. Restores relationships immediately
  45. Speaks the Truth
  46. Pacifies his enemies
  47. Asks for forgiveness when appropriate
  48. Secure with requests or orders
  49. Forgives
  50. Will not tolerate flattery
  51. Desires all “boys” to be Men
  52. Is empowered by list of Man traits